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It's all good to want to bring back the spice ...

2010-04-19T10:48:09.516-07:00

It's all good to want to bring back the spice back in the bedroom after childbirth..but it is very hard to do that with a man who is so self-rightous, self-centered and helpless. The only time he is nice is when he wants to have sex.. he doesn'twant to help with the baby because he is oh so tired and when he is not tired he has to go on the road. So in situations like mine.. sorrry but sex is the last thing I want from him..

All I can feel for him sometimes is bitterness, anger and regret.. Regret that I made such sacrifice for both of us and I am the only one bearing it.

I sound kinda bitter but this stuff is true.. thumbs up to all you women who have the supportive man/father so u guys are happy to indulge in the sex opportunities.

At least you guyz had a partner that wanted sex du...

2010-03-30T13:58:56.993-07:00

At least you guyz had a partner that wanted sex during your preggo moments. I havd to bed by husband to make love to me.. Even when my hormones were rocking crazy he refused to claiming he feels as if the baby is gonna be apart of the process and it freaked him out..

So thumbs up to u all.. I was sexually deprived during pregnancy and now I can't feel that urge the way i used to. I just can't get myself to want to make love to my husband anymore..
Sad but it is true..t's not that i don't love him or not attracted to him anymore it's jst the sex... It's like my whole life has been changed and so is the focus..

Will be reading all the tips, cause i don't want to lose my husband because of this.

Thanks Jamaica Mommy.. Might I add that the same t...

2010-03-22T10:59:33.613-07:00

Thanks Jamaica Mommy.. Might I add that the same thing happened to me. If it was up to me i would have taken a quickie in the hospital room right after i was induced. LMAO! I do not know what it feels like to not want sex while i was preggo..I even wake up my boo for round two when he was oh so tired at nights and needed to go to work for 6am.

But I realize though, that it doesn't matter how much sex you have during pregnancy, the man still will need some TLC, Heck..i wanted it too and I was still recovering. But giving some attention to the man will really make postpartum more enjoyable. AS you said when we reconnected it was like an explosion. yeah..TMI.

Spontaneous calls or romantic stunts are really good too. As I always say "Pamper and be pampered!"

Cheers Nikx.

Great job Nikz... A lil TMI here but my huz and I ...

2010-03-21T13:44:17.850-07:00

Great job Nikz... A lil TMI here but my huz and I pretty much had sex til the day of delivery (fortunate right) so he wasnt very depraved after in my recovery period. What we did though in the recovery period was to follow amny of the tips given above. We also made it a point of duty to still do romantic stuff...call to say I love you, shower together and just really show appreciation...trust me it helps the man to still feel wanted and in tuned with you while you recover. Plus there was the bonus of keeping the flames so hot between us, that when we finally got in some action, it was well worth the wait and the explosion of flames :-)

Oh boy I just wish my wife could have seen this po...

2010-03-19T13:25:18.821-07:00

Oh boy I just wish my wife could have seen this post. I told her that Quickies work but she too organized and because a that we hardly get time for ourself because our newborn takes up all her time.

You should tell every woman this..Quickies do work for us men.
And honestly we men do feel a bit left out sometimes because we dont get no more attention.

Men I like this post.