So I was reading an article the other day with a lady who for some reason has fallen out of love with her husband of of 18years.. For a while I kept on saying "oh boy-life is so funny." ... But how does one "Fall out of Love?"I think it's simple and sometimes happen without one even noticing.I always say that it's the little things that actually make a relationship work.
- Communication
- Honesty
- Understanding
- Compromise
- Appreciation
- Love, and last but not close to the least
- RESPECT.
- Making time SEX (If not intercourse, please take part in a little foreplay)
- A kiss before you leave in the mornings/evenings for work
- A reminder text message to say "I Love You"or "You mean the World to me"
- A red lollipop for her when you get home from work.
- Cuddling to watch a movie at home.
- A funny handmade card made by you and the kids expressing your appreciation
- A colorful complement.eg.. "You look gorgeous in that dress honey.., Babe that suit was made just for you handsome!" Oh honey this dinner is super awesome'' If you get the picture.
But I must say Scoopers that a dull relationship will ultimately lead to a dull love. Suddenly you start being with each other because of the kids, or the convenience of having a partner (Oh I'm married).
Unfortunately as soon as we start taking these little things lightly then the relationship will start to get thirsty and the love will dry out, the attraction for each other will fade and so will everything else until you start asking yourselves..."How Did This Happen? Then you will be too late.
I know you have a lot to say so please go ahead and share your thoughts and advice to all of us Scoopers.
Cheers!
Nikx
2 comments:
I must say that these words are true. But I do feel like am experiencing this right now. I think what led to this is because of the lack of emotional support between us after our baby. We barely spend time with each other and the little time we get we use it to argue.
So i guess i need to take a little of your advice. Good Job and thanks for your post i really enjoy reading them.
This is serious ladies.. It happens especially after childbirth..been marriedn twice and the reason fro my first divorce was because we started to fall out of love with each other slowly..
Be careful.. sometimes u don't even realize that the relationship is missing until it's already gone.. Please be a friend to your partner. Be there for each other emotionally, physically and financially. If you don't you might end up losing the best thing that ever happen to you.. I know because I have been there..
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