If you are in this situation then I am sure you have asked yourself this question a thousand time already. Surely you may come up with maybe one or two answers such as:
1. The Kids 2.
Financial Stability
3. Good Sex
4. Blah, Blah, Blah
You could try to work on your relationship if you think change will come for any of the above reasons. But Might i add that while you are doing that you are wasting some very precious moments and years of your life. A friend tell me once that a dog will always be a dog so it doesn't matter how much you dress him up and treat him like a baby he will always remain a dog and not a child. Hmmmm... On the other hand, if I was to ask you why you want to leave your relationship you would would be able to write me a 10 page essay and more. You probably will say most of these reasons:
1. He/she is never there when I need him most.
2. I am not appreciated.
3. I am making all the compromise.
4. I am verbally and physically abused.
5. He/she cheats on me left, right and center.
Can you think of anymore? .... I'm sure you can.
Sometimes as women we face so many of these problems and we keep them to ourselves and let them drive us crazy when all we need is to say.."Enough is Enough, I am out of here". Trust me in circumstances like these, packing a bag is the easiest thing to do. As a mom break up would be the last thing i would wish on myself because i believe that kids should be grown in a strong loving family with both parents. So if you have kids I do empathize with you, But remember that if you are miserable your kids are going to be miserable and happy kids learn better and grow with high self esteem and self confidence.. One Love all.





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