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February 4, 2010

Ladies, Valentines Day is for Men Too...Pamper and be Pampered!

Hmmm... So as ladies we sometimes think that we should be the only one treated, pampered and opening gifts, but as they say 'it takes two hands to clap'. So I am begging you to make your men feel loved too on this special day...Valentines Day.

Remember most times is not how expensive or what you do, rather it is how you do it and the effort and passion you put in it. men are usually not fussy, we are the fussy and expensive character in the relationship, no offense that's allowed.,,

View these simple inexpensive ideas to treat your man on February 14.


  1. Romantic Massage Night for two with red wine, scented candles complemented by some of his favorite midnight snacks. . Of course you will be the masseuse.
  2. A Private Dance (You being the dancer and the man the audience). Make sure you put on something sexy and teasing to play the role. 
  3. A nice home made dinner (For those of us who can cook). 
  4. Souvenirs please show some romantic tastes in your choices ladies.
  5. Send personalized cards with your own words and designs and possibly and photo for his eyes only.
I'm sure you have some ideas of your own. Please feel free to share them with the Scooper Sistas as we share the love.

Check out some of the Dos and Don'ts for Valentines Day.


6 comments:

Sara said...

This is so true. I must say that i am guilty of this sometimes. I do try to pamper my boo but most of the times it always ended up that i am the one opening the gifts. but i like you suggestions nikx. The private dance with costume is awesome! keep on writing... I like

Anxious said...

Well what can i say, sometimes i feel like i do too much pampering but guess that is not gonna change anytime soon... cause that's me...
I will definitely back up my girl Nicks on this one ladies you must learn to step out side of the box and surprise your man every now and then and it so happens that Valentines Day is good medium. if you use to wear a lot of clothes wear less, if you used to be all shy be bold, If he is the one who is always in charge you need to flip the script... if u used to do in the bed all the time try the balcony or the wash room.Unleash your inner seductiveness and treat your man to night he wont forget...

nothingprofound said...

One and two would be my top choices, but I'd certainly settle for number three.

Californex said...

Well I am glad a woman finaly realized that Valentines day is to celebrate the love between two people and that it's not just about her. I know it's maily about her but a little attention for us guys would be nice. Thanks for having the courage to say it.

Flava said...

I agree with all the comments but what if my partener doesnt celebrates valentine?

Valentine for me is not just a day. I always do pampering at times. Try different types of stuff to spice up the bedroom life. Do crazy stuff at times to surprise your partner.

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