So I was at hair salon the other day with a friend of mine and sexual pleasure was the talk of the day and i decided to share some of these concerns with you guys. If you are in a situation where you are practically fed up of your sex life to the point where you are considering other options then you need to take drastic actions.
I always say "No Play.....No Way". Hmmmm but each situation is different. It could be that the woman is not satisfied with the man or the man not satisfied with the woman. In any case their is trouble in the water...
So the main topic was that this lady in her early forties is married to this man in his late sixties hmmm. Her problem is that it does matter what she does, she can't get her husband to "rise to the occasion"or when he does he is back down after 3 minutes and as a result he is miserable, withdrawn and tries to avoid her anytime he suspect she is coming on to her.
Of course she asked me what I would do and I was like "huh? oh me? Wow!" The only thing I could have said was that maybe he is too anxious or that he has a lot on his mind... but I just wanted to tell her that honey he is just too old and cold..lol.
So my Scoopers I am putting it out to you.. What would you do?
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i would say anxious could be it or maybe she is jus too good so she needs to slow things down or try going at him twice for the night
I agree with you Anonymous. I could be that he is just anxious or maybe he has lost his self confidence and that is a great problem in any relationship.
Well well, if my partner is not pleasing me sexually i must first find out where the fault lies, is it the size of his penis/ is it the time spent doing it? is it that he cant keep it hard? is it that there is no energy and the list goes on... if i love the person and his physically attracted to him then i would try to assist. The problem could also be on my side so i would want to find that out first...Men are turned on by different things ...
Things that may seem silly at times to us females, but sex is a you help me i help you thing, so you both have to find out what gets each started before jumping to the conclusin that the man is just Lame....
hmm, that's a tough question... for me as a guy, i think sex is quite important in a relationship... but it's not the only thing that keeps u attached of course... all guys have a lil ego no matter how much they try to deny... at times when a guy's too tired or afraid or as all the above suggested, when anxiety attacks, he cannot perform properly... to salt to wound, his ego will be crashed, thus, an understanding and supportive partner would be of much help... i'm lucky i've yet to face problems like that, but maybe a physiotherapist could help... maybe some aphrodisiac can do the job... if worse, i think there are some safe drugs to start off with, then when he regained his confidence, i guess, it will come naturally... on if my partner doesn't satisfy me, i'll surely talk to her... it will hurt a little but i think it's best to speak it out... but i cant really think of a way to solve it... although a few of my guy-friends have suggested going for paid sex... yes, it may be immoral if u think of it, but they have a very valid reason i'd say: it's bad that u cheat on your partner, but in paid sex, no feelings is involved... u're just trying to satisfy your desire and yet, still loyal and be as good to your gf as you've always been... don't know about u but i think it's quite true... anyway, what a provoking thought u've included here! nice blog!! keep it up! cheers...
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