Today's Thought
"That's the nature of women, not to love when we love them, and to love when we love them not." Miguel De Cervantes
January 21, 2010
Searching his Phone?
Who is calling such late hours and soo often? Who is he texting? Can't wait for him to go take a shower so I can take a peak... Hmmm sounds familiar? Do you think it is right? Why don't you just ask him?
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4 comments:
Familiar indeed, i do it because of how he reacts when he takes certain phone calls. More over when i ask about them...
I know sometimes nothing is going on, but just want for him to tell me rather than be asking...
I search his phone sometimes because i need to know who he is texting or calling when i am not around and if i ask i am sure he will say it's none of my business or that i am too fast.
I know at times we all get a lil tempted (sometimes paranoid) especially when we think our spouse is hiding something. But I always believe in honesty so if you suspect he is hiding something please ask him first. Dont just be quick to judge. Let him know you are suspicious of his calls and text and he probably will respect you more and open up a lil.
Its all good that we should trust him. But they do not make it easy for us to . A man does not like to be questioned about women calling or texting, so even if you ask in the nicest calmest way, he will get defensive and give you reason to think he is hiding something, why get all defensive if you are not hiding anything... So if i ask and he cant just answer honestly i will then believe that its because he is hiding something; and since you wont tell me ... then he leave me no choice
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