How to Get over a Breakup

Going through a break up and you feel like your world has just ended? News flash, you have a new era to begin! So wake honey!


Breaking up with someone means giving up a very intimate part of your life that was very special to you and is a very long and rocky road. Wether you are the dumper or the 'dumpee', getting over a break up can be one of the hardest challenge one can ever go through but doing it is crucial necessity.


Majority of women have experience this at some point in out lives so I am sure you are familiar with the heart aches and pains that comes with it.


However, we must accept that life does go on and that everything happens for a reason. Who knows, maybe the break up was exactly what you need. 


Though I may not be an expert on breakup, I do have a few tips to share as I have been down that road before as both a dumper and a dumpee. Talk about tears, i could cry you a river, bitterness, that was me. 


But I have come to realize that there is not one set way to heal a broken heart so what may work for you may not work for me and vice versa. However, I do know that first we need to face the reality. 
You can cry, scream, throw things, run swim or sleep if that's what u need to breathe at first then do it. Guys usually refuse to cry because they think it is not manly or they think it makes them look weak but I for one always think it takes great strength for a man to break down and cry. 
When you are done with all that i thin you should try these steps.

• Accept it
• Share it with friends family and be honest about your feeling.
• Believe that you can be happy again and even happier
• Spend time and invest in yourself. Find a hobby so that you can feel good, look good enjoy you again.
• Then set realistic  goals.

Good luck and remember to tell us what worked for you.